So today is my birthday, and I dont know what to do.
Is this the famous mid-life-crisis ?
Always thought I would held a hell of a party, undertaking a journey to the bottom of the night in a dance club ..... but i dont feel like to party.

I kind of have everything (ok not totally) ....I am often accused as that one guy in our friends circle that have it all together. Married to a good wife, good kids, good job, good house & car etc.

But at the end of the day we are all busy fighting our own struggles getting trough the day or the week or the month while asuming others dont exist.
We men are a proud specimen and we dont talk or compare our struggles, no we rather do it alone.

Looking back at the last 20 years of my life, I have a hell of a lot of regrets and things could have been so different if i made the right/other choices.

So what have you done for your 40th birthday and what is your biggest regrets

A very happy birthday to you...

Happy birthday

you stay blessed.

Thank you......

Happy Birthday. Hope you have a fantastic day!

Do what makes you happy.

"You cannot go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending"

- CS Lewis

I regret reading your post..

Get yourself 2 cheeks and enjoy threesome..... forget about regrets! What regrets are you talking about......life begins at 40yrs ......

On 2017-12-11 14:40:53 lebaropa said:
Get yourself 2 cheeks and enjoy threesome..... forget about regrets! What regrets are you talking about......life begins at 40yrs ......

Triple like!!! ;-)

On 2017-12-07 08:46:36 sednesar said:


So what have you done for your 40th birthday and what is your biggest regrets

Literally on my 40th birthday, I made a snap decision to change my career, and went from long time corporate banker, to opening up my micro business trading as a vendor in the events business. It was both the best and worst decision I have ever made