Most of us here (both punters and WG )live double life. Some are married or in relationships.Been with women in this industry and outside and have witnessed how they would lie to their partners in my presence,We men also do the same..which left me wondering; is getting committed really worth it?Do faithfulness and honesty still exist?

I'm a bachelor and such things really discourage me. They really make me insecure.

Honesty and faithfulness still exists through communication, patience and understanding.

I'll never get involved in a relationship while I'm in this industry... I don't need a pimp and I don't need a looser who think it's okay if I fuck other men for money so that he can sit at home...
To be honest... I don't think I'll ever get involved with someone ever again... I'm still in love with my fairy tale and it's enough for me... I made my peace a long time ago and I'm happy with who I am...
How can a man trust me while I'm in this industry? I won't be able to live with the lies... but it's me.

Ms Paige. It looks like you live your life in a very black and white way with extremes and nothing between. You say you don't want a pimp or need a looser who think it's okay if you fuck other men for money so that he can sit at home, but what about the guy who is ok with the girl's lifestyle choice, or the guy who has a job and doesn't need the girl's fuck money? These people must also exist. While there are definitely more than a fair share of disturbed relationships there must be those where the trust is mutual and respected and they get on just fine? In the end why are we always so judgemental on these things? Is it because this profession is illegal in this country at present or perhaps considered morally incorrect by some. How does this differ from those people at KPMG and Bell Pottinger who have willingly aided the corrupt downslide of this country, or the lawyers who get known muderers, rapists and scumbags off of their crimes. I think I would prefer to take my chances with a lady who knew I trusted her to be in this game and to do the right thing as it would be me she was coming home to eventually.

Its a very hard answer. Yes being married and having sex outside with another person is not the best thing to do. But will we as punters stop. Not easy. Always doing your best not to get caught.

Well Click like I said... it's me and how I see myself in such a relationship. I have never met a happy couple in such a relationship but only saw the bad side of it when I worked at Elysium. Girls who's being used and abused by their partners, to damn lazy to find a job. It will NEVER work for me. First off... I'm WAY to jealous and will never be able to share my partner. If it does work for other couples, wow, good for them. I take my hat of for those couples who can live with it and I think it takes Super open minded people to make it work... but I can't...

Wow ms Paige you an early bird like me...

The weather is nice for cuddles....

Ms Paige I understand your position better thanks and agree that people would need to be very open minded.

I speak totally under correction but most "committed punters" stray to get what they can't get from MRS, end of story (they usually punt little as its not easy to cover up tracks 100% and financially long bookings not sustainable long term)!

The needs list is a long shopping list (each couple is different) but from my time on here it appears:
BJ, CIM and Anal top the list then it explodes into a guy pursuing that once off bucket list threesome!

On 2017-10-28 21:34:26 Master Dick said:
Most of us here (both punters and WG )live double life. Some are married or in relationships.Been with women in this industry and outside and have witnessed how they would lie to their partners in my presence,We men also do the same..which left me wondering; is getting committed really worth it?Do faithfulness and honesty still exist?

I'm a bachelor and such things really discourage me. They really make me insecure.

I can largely relate to what you saying, it's the main reason I punt.
It's going to largely depend on if you are happy to be single.

I have many hobbies and always getting up to mischief with friends or generally just enjoying life. To now get permission or upset someone if I don't... that feels like work to me.

A single friend and I decided about a month back. Screw it, lets go fishing for the weekend. We had an epic time braai-ing everynight, eating straight off the fire, sipping some very good whiskies. Of our married friends only one could make it on short notice and his wife brow beat the crap out of this guy. I've seen my guy friends who were absolute stallions while single, they drank champagne off the tits of hotties and loves their lives. Now they have "grown up". Their lives are dull af, they sold the bikes to buy SUVs. They live to earn money now for a woman who day in and day out treats him like shit and keeps him on a leash.

Most of the time, they just say or go along with what she says just to keep the peace. If they upset her then it's weeks of silence and/or tears. They just don't want to upset her which is perhaps noble of them but it also just creates a spiral of misery. Some of these friends from my varsity days, I don't speak to them anymore because according to their significant others, I'm a bad influence.

I'm not talking about one of my friends, I'm talking about most of them. They just want to keep the peace and so the fire inside of them has died.

I refuse to buy into that story. I've had many girlfriends who all tried to do something similar to myself "you are precious to me, sell the bike" or "man up and...". I refuse.

I think it's pretty clear I'm anti relationship because I don't want to "share" my life with someone. I want my life to myself.