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A first timers guide to punting
A first timers guide to punting
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Posted: 2017-04-20 14:40:42
Many a time I read on the forum about guys not knowing what to do in this industry as it is there first time and asking for advice. This following is just a short guide written by myself as what to do if it's your first time punting. Please feel to add or criticize the guide.
If you are a virgin please don't do your first time as a punt. I can promise you it will screw with your viewpoint of sex and relationships and is overall a bad idea. Just rather wait and work on meeting someone for your first time.
Part 1. Picking a lady -
As you probably can see there is quite a bit of choices available on this website and many others. This can possibly cater to your tastes budget and area.
Stick to this website as it offers the review option. If you are located in an area outside of JHB or PTA the other websites do have more choices but with those choices follows risks.
Read the reviews.
This will give you a good indication of what the lady offers and if she is good or bad. If there are no reviews you can jump in the deep end of the pool and try it out, but I would not recommend that for the first time (if you do leave a review).
Venue or private?
Depends on your character. Both have their pros and cons. Private has the pro of what is in it's name Privacy. Venue has the pro of selection and no privacy. You can confirm with the lady if she is working from a venue or not. I would recommend going private your first time it makes things a hell of a lot less stressful. Consider getting a gold membership that you can look at the photos in HD. Helped me personally whittle down my choice many a time. Just a tip look at the lady's hands this gives you a good indication of style and age.
Should I bring a condom/condoms?
You need not as most of the girls are professionals and have there own. If you do have your own requirements/fears feel free to bring your own.
Should I call, PM, whatsapp or SMS.
Rather call. I know it can be intimidating at first. I always prefer calling as you can pick up a lot from a person from there tone of voice and manners over the phone. If you cannot call for whatever reason rather send a SMS as not all the girls have whatsapp or know how to reply to PM's on the website. This does not mean she will message you back.
Should I bring gifts?
Not needed. If you feel the service was exceptional and would like to treat the lady in particular rather leave a monetary tip at the end of the session it is much more appreciated than flowers or chocolate.
Budget.
Depends on area and "quality". If you want that awesome hot girl in the top 10 realize that it is going to cost you. Averaging between 800-1300 an hour. Depends on the girl and her rates (this can be found out with a simple call, don't be shy to ask as the ladies get asked this regularly). If you find it too much consider it your first time so why not splash out, if after that train of thought you find it too much than consider having a knuckle shuffle.
Commonly used acronyms and slang.
GFE - Girl friend experience: Want to cuddle and french kiss a girl? If the lady offers this than she most likely does the above.
FH - Full house: Sex.
PSE - Porn star experience: A very commonly used term but with no set definition. I see it as do you want the lady to ride you silly? There you go.
OWO - Oral without: Blowjob without a condom.
BB - Bareback: Sex without a condom (Stay away from the girl if she offers this).
Greek - Anal.
MG - Massage girl: Does not do FH sometimes oral.
WG - Working girl: Does do FH.
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Posted: 2017-04-20 15:16:51
Zwan, thanks for the guide ... great effort put into this ... easy guide to follow for new comers. It was nearly exactly what I did when I started to punt and off cause a little of gud feeling can't do any harm.
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Posted: 2017-04-20 15:32:41
Edited: 2017-04-20 15:33:27
I would add that if first-timer, and looking at reviews, make sure the girl has reviews from guys which has at least done 10+ reviews. This is to avoid selfies (i.e. Where the girl created a profile and reviewed herself).
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Posted: 2017-04-20 17:01:41
Part 2 -
My place vs. her place vs a Hotel/BnB.
Depends on the time you want to book the lass. If you are going for 30 minutes to 3 hours her place. Doing an all nighter (12 hours)? Go to a hotel or if she is working from a venue ask if it has the things you would expect. I can recommend Heaven on Earth here as they have lovely rooms that you can acquire for the evening. If you are a single lad and don't mind your neighbors skinnering about you why not your place? Just remember here is where you need to rely on reviews quite a bit, many a punter (customer) has been ripped off with this. Although I never have and never will take a girl I do not know to my place too many risks involved.
Driving to the venue:
Ask for the address, google maps is a thing and plan to be there at least 15 minutes early. If she starts with go to this street and then this street just tell her you are direction befok and ask for the address. If you are late some girls will deduct it from your time if you do not notify them quite a bit beforehand. If it is a new place I like to just drive around the block and scout a bit and get a feeling.
The booking itself.
If it is your first time punting and you are nervous communicate it to the lass. She knows she will need need to take the lead. Here is the best advice I can give you COMMUNICATE. Want to do something out of the ordinary that has not been discussed beforehand just ask if she is comfortable with it (you will be surprised). Trust me you don't want to place your finger n her bum and get a slap out of it. Same goes with the lady if she is doing something you are not comfortable with. I always have a bit of a giggle if some of the girls try and put a finger up my bum. A quick jerk away and a no no no usually does suffice. Just relax and let the experience flow naturally.
Hygiene.
Most of the girls do have a shower at their place or venue. Note that most of the time this will be taken from your time. I prefer to always shower myself beforehand as that avoids this issue. Be as clean as you (hopefully) will be at a first date. If you are not circumcised pull back the skin and have a good scrop. Good hygiene does wonders in terms of good services.
Leaving a review.
The girls really like a review being put down. Just be honest and a gentleman about it. Don't go into too much detail about the deed. Did she give a good blowjob? Write she gave a good blowjob, just not how her tongue licked all the sweat from your balls. Did something bother you during the service? Write it down. Was the service absolutely bad and nothing met your expectations. Write it down, just be a gentleman about it. You did not find her attractive? Rather write she did not look like her photos instead of she was an ugly beast. Did you guys not talk and you wanted to talk? Write we did not click. I prefer when I write a review to list at least one negative with all the positives.
Sex and emotions.
Just know you are paying a lady for her time. She wants you to be happy. She wants you to return. She is running a business. She will tell you you are a Adonis, you are the best lover she has had and you are very attractive. For the love of God do not fall in love. If you do bitch on one of the previous forums about it and see many a punter has fallen in that predicament (including myself). The way I have learned to avoid this is reminding myself of the business aspect and also creating a character that is separate from my own character. The ladies know me as Zwan they do not know me by my real name.
Want to ask a question about anything please use the forum but beforehand just use the search function everything you are wondering about has been discussed a billion times beforehand. Too shy to ask something on the forum feel free to send me a PM.
Always be safe do your research and have fun.
Will add to this guide in the following days.
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Posted: 2017-04-20 17:17:28
Zwan, you are star buddy ... I really enjoyed reading this .. plenty of connotations to me personally ... great job buddy !!!
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Posted: 2017-04-20 17:24:26
I enjoyed writing this guide boobs glad you enjoyed reading it. It made me reflect on many a good and also some bad experiences as well. Although it scared me to realize how many experiences there has been.
Might as well impart some generic lessons and advice.
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Posted: 2017-04-20 17:41:35
The newcomers and maybe current punters must just learn from these mistakes we all went through and save a lot of hard earned money in the process. Looking forward to the new chapters. Respect and appreciation to you zwan !!!
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Posted: 2017-04-21 14:41:59
Part 3 -
Ethics.
So you are thinking about this and considering to do this but ethics plays on your mind. Well there is no sugar coating it you are possibly going to pay someone for sex. Not the most glamorous thing but hey its the oldest profession in the world right? Its a business transaction with many grey areas in between. Personally how I have handled it is by being certain the girl is comfortable with me (or at least pretend to) and not support any places that have pimps and drugs. If the ethics question is still bugging you after thoroughly thinking it through delete your account forget about what just happened as the guilt will eat you up.
Sharing information.
This is a platform that encourages the above concept. Yet again be a gentleman about it. If a lady is going out of her way to please you don't proclaim it on a public forum. Also never write down a ladies service fees openly on the forum its just very ill mannered. I have had some guys ask me certain details over PM's, this is where your own judgement comes into play. I tend to give information that a girl has told me over the phone before our initial meeting but anything else never.
Covering your tracks.
Get a second pay as you go sim card and preferably a cheap phone if you are going to make calls. I HIGHLY recommend that you do NOT use your personal phone (if you are in a relationship) or business phone for making calls. Cash is king in this industry and use only cash. Bank statements can bite you in the behind. Take a shower afterword and try and not get your hair wet. Going to a gym on a regular basis can help explain this to your misses. Also not a bad idea to join one for excuses to pop out of the house and come back tired (also health reasons of course use the bloody membership if you have one). Think about any kind of tracks you might leave behind you (google maps location history, browser history those types of things) as a divorce/break up is very expensive.
Threesomes and more.
Oh you want to do a menage a troi. You devil you. A lot of the girls have what they call double partners. Specials as well. I have had the pleasure of partaking on this road a couple of times. I prefer to do something a bit more risky. Pop into some venues and try and find out which girls have not yet have doubles with each other and are attracted to each other. I have had some bad experiences but if it works out oh my some of the best sexual experiences in my life.
Loaning money. (Going to get my dick bit off for explaining this one)
Sometimes you will get that a WG will ask for a loan. Just know that the chances of you seeing that money again is very slim. Some girls don't make good money and some do. Remember these girls are hustlers and know how to spin a story. If she is in the top 10 she is making good money and does not need a loan. Rather suggest doing an all nighter than borrowing money if you feel the need to give the lady in question money.
Have a good weekend lads. Will contribute and put in a bit of more tips and topics in the following week.
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*FH=Fire in her Hole
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This is sweet of you Mr Zwan. Well done!
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