Hi ladies

Need a little advice on how to improve my performance lol.
I'm no Mandingo and often find that once I get going especially doggie etc I reach a stage where I have to stop before I come.

Do I -

1) stay in and not move at all?
This has often led to my partner moving and then I cum :(

2) pull out and use fingers or tongue giving my little friend a chance to recover

Ladies do you often hv guys who urge you not to move at all cos they too close .

Asking the sexperts lol

Good question!

It's a myth that men go the distance every time they have sex. Some days you go the distance in one go and sometimes you don't last as long as you would like to. Sometimes you can go multiple rounds with no issues. That's how it goes. Go all out take a break and have another go when you have recovered, pulling out and restarting usually kills the mood.

I'm gonna say option 3 go for gold, add some fore(after)play after you cum and then go for round two/three/four.

Women usually understand that you might come earlier than they have, sometimes all they want is for you to orgasm and sometimes you have to reciprocate, the odd occasion is when you both orgasm at the same time that doesn't happen all the time so you have to improvise. Just make sure she is happy and that the score sheet is somewhat balanced.

There are durex condoms (think its called Long play) that has a numbing substance inside. Takes the edge off. You can try those.

No ladies input :(