Hello beautiful ESA ladies,
I'd like to find out what the issue is around text messages and why it is frowned upon. Most times when I contact a lady via text for details, either she does not respond or is very rude about it. one lady in particular was extremely rude which shocked me as she only has great reviews. my messages are always respectful and polite.

Just looking to be properly informed so know what I should or shouldn't do. Fairly new to this game.

I speak for myself as ibknow there are other ladies that don't mind texting.

Firstly my list of services and treatments are quite long any who has sent me a pm will beable to tell you my response will not fit onto 1 or even 4 smses and because I use a elcheepo phone for work I cannot sent a MMS.

Secondly my profile states no private numbers and smses will be entertained (not that horny guys read once they have sent tits and ass)

Last but not least majority not all but majority of these guys don't book.

Also one never knows who you giving info for me personally bi can tell a lot by the voice and questions asked.

I respond only to smses of clients i know.

Again that's just me.

True yes, Melina

I actually prefer whatsapp over text messages and then like you said definitely calls, the voice and telephone manner says a lot more than a text

I find it a security issue as never sure of who I am taking to

90% of the men that text, never book. They tend to want to chit chat - thinking that we're friends... or that I'm in need of another friend.
Like seriously?

I dont mind a text, whatsapp as long as we can get to the point.

As for sending me dick pics - next time - I'm going to take said pic and number and post it on Backpage.

It's a waist of time for me too.
It cost me money to reply on all msg and i don't have time to answer over 40msg a day.
That's why my WhatsApp also been deactivated.
If you wanna book please phone,
If you a long time client I will answer or confirming a appointment.
I understand if you can't reach a girl and then perhaps she's busy... but only sending msgs makes me think you haven't got money to book and need a chat mate.

I personally prefer to discuss all over a phone call...


When u read a text message it sounds boring..
And you also get to explain all . So all questions can be answered at once and not text after text.. it jus saves time

My personal experience
1) Just short of 100% do not book.
2) There are nuances picked up during a phone call that I do not pick up in a text/email/whatsapp.
3)Some guys have way too many questions
4) I have a ROAR policy, not based on race, & I need to verify that I actually DO want to see the guy, again I pick this up from talking to the person.
5)Some guys think that if I'm not busy with a client I'm looking for company or I'm lonely

And I agree with Monika. What can be discussed telephonically in 2 minutes takes half an hour by sms. I just had a look at my work phone and at the calls from guys who pitched. The longest call was 2 mins 13 secs. Those are calls from new clients. So no guy can tell me he can't step out of the office for 2mins to make the enquiry.

I have whatsapp instead of sms, and I can almost tell by the third text if the booking is happening or not, and it's easier to block annoying chatters aswell...

Most sms guys don't make a booking it's a waste of airtime at the end of the day, but a phone call works even better to answer all your questions and still play around and seduce you a bit ;-)