.. That a guy posting 'does anybody know where I can find Xyz?' could possibly be the reason she isn't advertising OR has reinvented herself. The person who has beaten her to a pulp, an abusive pimp, a stalker, etc. She often has no other way of sustaing herself and her kids and so the only choice is to change venues, change name and ads. and some of you go passing on info willt-nilly to people you don't know.
I am not referring to anybody or any situation in particular. It's something I've been thinking about for a while.

I have also wondered the same. Possibly testing to see if guy's know where she is or inform those that dont. Just make guys know that she is around.

I'd like to break this down just so I don't throw this topic off the rails.

This ex pimp/stalker etc. is the Bad character and wants to track XYZ 's whereabouts. Info comes from any or either source though some individuals may not be aware of the enquirers' real motive behind the search to find XYZ's location.

Yet some might innocently try to assist, be it that the Bad guy sweet talked himself through anything unless he's not that much of a mastermind in play.

But considering that this whole situation is about XYZ, being in this industry makes it more complex.

Got it!

I would say there's always two sides of the story. If and when there has been real danger reported or witnessed by someone or people who were close to XYZ who know the real story. That this person's life was threatened by the BAD character. Thus they made a decision to go anonymous to protect themselves should be taken into consideration.

It could also be that XYZ could of deceived people by not telling the truth because of AB and C by reasons only known to them.

And again that the BAD character might be stained with all kinds dark ink and wants to make amends with XYZ because of a misunderstanding.

There are many reasons.

But now I personally (if the shoe fits) would be very angry if someone fed information without careful consideration no matter how much they wanted to spite me. Now that would put my life and my loved ones in danger and I would point a finger and poke it like a dagger so deep with scorching heat. You'll think the Lord is far in answering like some who understand slowness.... *fire out my ears *

phew....*relief sigh*......now that was a lot of steam!

Yeah it Nadia it has crossed my mind too!