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Woman and their desire to be spoilt
Posted: 2017-03-09 21:02:31
I have no issues with spoiling a woman. But men need to be spoilt as well.
Some woman think it's a mans job to spoil them while they sit back and enjoy the benefits. Putting up sex as a reward is a benefit to us but doesn't mean that's the only way a man can be spoilt.
I miss those chicks who were in my life that did things not because I spoilt them but because they had the character and imagination to spoil me without using sex as the first option.
Some woman think it's a mans job to spoil them while they sit back and enjoy the benefits. Putting up sex as a reward is a benefit to us but doesn't mean that's the only way a man can be spoilt.
I miss those chicks who were in my life that did things not because I spoilt them but because they had the character and imagination to spoil me without using sex as the first option.
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Re: Woman and their desire to be spoilt
Posted: 2017-03-09 21:06:03
Men don't appreciate it either! I spoilt my ex maybe to much! I was taken for granted.
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Re: Woman and their desire to be spoilt
Posted: 2017-03-09 21:08:20
Not all men. And like I said " some woman " not all woman.
But that's just how some people are . Can't please them all and some have no appreciation for what you do
But that's just how some people are . Can't please them all and some have no appreciation for what you do
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Re: Woman and their desire to be spoilt
Posted: 2017-03-09 22:37:58
Edited: 2017-03-09 22:45:17
Edited: 2017-03-09 22:45:17
@yolan some people it is just not in their nature to be thoughtful and giving. Irrespective of gender the idea of reciprocating and rewarding good deeds does not enter their mind's.
Maybe you should tell her that you would also like to be spoiled and appreciated from time to time.
Explain to her that the sex is not a reward for you. It is an integral part of the marriage/relationship and should be mutually desired and enjoyed.
Share your interests with her and tell her what you would appreciate from her.
Rather communicate your feelings, thoughts with her, than stew in resentment. Not healthy for you or your relationship if you unhappy.
Maybe you should tell her that you would also like to be spoiled and appreciated from time to time.
Explain to her that the sex is not a reward for you. It is an integral part of the marriage/relationship and should be mutually desired and enjoyed.
Share your interests with her and tell her what you would appreciate from her.
Rather communicate your feelings, thoughts with her, than stew in resentment. Not healthy for you or your relationship if you unhappy.
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