Bear with me here there is a question at the end of this.

I have said before that I do not have the most conventional of marriages. Currently the esteemed Mrs Le Roux is laid up with dodgy knees after recent surgery and is waddling around like a robot.

We have strayed away and sought other partners in the past but it was the reasons we strayed rather than the partners we sought that caused any problems.

Now sex with a waddling robot, albeit a sexy attractive one, poses certain issues that are tough for both of us, but it is far easier for me to attend to her requirements than for her to attend to mine.

Following a moment of frustration at the weekend she said "why don't you just get one of your ladies to help you?" The thought had crossed my mind, and knowing her I know she is genuine with her suggestion with no game playing or testing the relationship in it.

What shocked me though is that she suggested someone visit our house as she would be a happier knowing I was there rather than being intimate with someone at their place. She said it was an "ownership thing" as in she is the one that owns me and it feels strange when I am away with someone else.

So the question:

Would you visit knowing my wife was down stairs watching TV or sat in the Jacuzzi sorting her knees out?

It just seems a bit bizarre to me but I'd like your opinions.

Ill visit u hun if she is ok with it ill be fine...

Hats off to your wife...

Kisses

Agree with @Chasidy xxx

It's beautiful and definitely not weird at all.

Definitely not weird.. as long as she is comfortable with the situation.. its amazing that there are still couples that's open minded very special indeed.. would gladly join you at your place..

It is very weird.
You are a very lucky man.

Goodness me. I was expecting a load of "ewwww" "yuk" and "no way" replies.

OK, you live and learn and not all our preconceived ideas are correct.

I'm still not sure I could have someone around at the house with Mrs Le Roux waddling around.

I'm not saying it would happen but I have this vision of her having a quiet word with the lady telling them what I like, popping her head in the door asking if we need drinks, making sure the extra fluffy towels are in the bathroom and saying "she was nice we should invite her to the braai this weekend." It's just strange for me.

Whenever we have been unfaithful it has always been apart from each other and it is typically because one or both of us have been pretty awful to the other. Like I said its not a conventional marriage. I certainly don't recommend our model for everyone but it works for us.

I am indeed a very lucky man. Sometimes furious, on occasion battered and bruised, often puzzled and frequently left wondering "what the hell is wrong now?" But at the end of the day very lucky. She puts up with my dysfunctionalies where no one else would.

Now its off to get the joints on her leg braces adjusted, a little breakfast somewhere nice and to appreciate our, for now, "how it should be for everyone" moment.

I'll put this on the back burner for now but thank you very much for your responses ladies. And Mr Fox.

"For Better or worse, In sickness and health"...As a married couple its amazing to know that you still stand by those words!!

I would definitely come over.. As long as the Mrs doesnt boil a kettle whilst were doing the nasty haha! (terrible joke I know)...

Both of you found a solution to a problem. Count your blessings that you have an open minded and understanding wife. Others will never be that fortunate.

However will you be able to get it up and service the said wg knowing that your wife will be in the next room or in the same room???

Wow..ure a lucky man indeed..didn't know there were wives that made such suggestions..not sure if I'd feel comfortable with that tho she doesn't mind,to me personally id feel like I'm disrespecting her home but i guess it depends on the chick ud consider calling over

Good luck with that