I am in a relationship and we are both very happy together and the sex is really great, like out of this world great!! I dont find the need to look elsewhere and neither does my girlfriend. We have both discussed having a threesome and we both like the idea but its all just been talk thus far, but it gets us both more and more into the whole idea.

The question i would like to ask is, do you think it is wrong that i want to share my girlfriend with another guy and visa versa? We are not lacking anything in the bedroom at all but the idea turns us both on. Perhaps once we try it we will feel differently about it? Has anyone on here been in a similar position at all?

I haven't been in your situation before, but would be more than happy to assist you two in making it happen!! PM me if you want

I think it's both wrong and weird!!!! How do you let someone that you love get bonked in front of you and enjoy that? Haii...naaah man...maybe I am just too ancient to understand some of these things! I am part of the old school that still believes that love is jealous, you don't share the person you love man...that's why punting life is a secret life.

I use to think this way too but i have learned a lot of things in life and my perspective has changed with a lot of things in a lot of ways. Your remark above is perhaps from a very old school patriarchal perspective, my girlfriend is not a possession, she does not belong to me!We are both loyal and love each other and have a wonderful life together. This is not a one sided thing and its also not any indication of the way that we feel for each other, its just an idea that we have discussed and that's why im curious to know what other people think about this. Its a sexual exploration, and one that could simply remain just an idea and we both happy with that.

Nothing weird or wrong about wanting to explore as long as both parties are into it.
Virtual, There's a HUGE difference between punting in secret iow cheating on your significant other and enjoying the experience with him/her. I know I'd rather be involved and get my share of the action.

Thanks for your input Nadia. I think the important thing is that this fantasy is centered around my girlfriend and i sharing this experience. It does not interest me or her to have a 3some if we are not both involved.

we married for 15 yrs and have been swinging with other couples for 17yrs ..... it just intensifies our sex life .... variety is the spice of life

@Nadia and James,

I will have to give in on this one and say "different strokes for different folks"...I guess. I am probably the weird one here then...but I still cannot stomach the idea of my partner being bonked in front of me or me penetrating another women in front of her, I don't think I will even get an erection. I am happy to be the weird and retarded one and will keep it that way.

@virtual you are not weird or retarded and its fine if you dont like this idea, its your choice and we all have the right to feel a certain way about something. like you said - different strokes for different folks :)

interesting to know how many guys who punt are also active swingers with their wives?