Things like hygiene are obvious but what else do you find when that is turn off?
Unkept finger nails.
Flat shoes.
Smell of food on person or at the venue.

Venue cleanliness. Nothing worse than walking into a place that stinks of stale smoke, especially when the profile says no smoking

MG I visited poped out for a number 2 and came back with toilet paper between her butt checks! Not cool. She's popular in Pretoria but I best no say....

After a pleasant telephone convo, an anticipating drive, the excitement of finding the correct address and getting inside the walls the door opens.... and then she faints?
Always pisses me off!
;-)

Oh, ya, waiting for the gate to be opened longer than necessary: you phoned in advance, you are on time, you are talking to her on the phone.... and it STILL takes several minutes waiting whilst parked idling on the road - WTF??
That gate must be opened the second you say you're there, the exact same flippin' second!

Paying upfront and then waiting like 10mins (which feels like eternity) for the girl to come back to the room.

I could wish that the ladies take care not to spoil the fantasy by taking care to dress in the same manner as they appear in their profile photos when they meet you for the first time.

[Edit] reading my post again, I am rather ashamed of my tortuous sentence construction.

@Chmoks. So agree with having to wait at the gate and being at risk of somebody passing by that recognises me/my car. Why do MGs/WGs do this? To avoid another 2 or 3 mins in our company?

Soppy stories at the 1st meeting. I understand it when we have built a relationship after many repeat meetings. But at the first meeting, i buy fantasy. I do not want to hear how badly your other half has treated you etc. It kinda kills the mood.

Techno80/Stommerik sounds like you suffer from a low self esteem. Lighten up a bit, I mean why would 2 to 3 minutes really matter. LOL

@Posduif. As someone closely envolved with a ESA banned venue, i fully understand your comment :-). And btw, Techno/Stommerik is not the same person...You've however got one thing right, i do suffer from a low self esteem. Congrats!