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Posted: 2015-06-24 19:02:29

Seems our country is a bunch of c*cksuckers :-o

OBSERVE.....www.gaystarnews.com/article/and-country-watches-most-gay-porn041114

What lovely clothes the emperor is NOT wearing ;-)
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Posted: 2015-06-25 21:32:50

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Posted: 2015-06-26 07:41:38

I consider myself homophobic, and I am definitely not gay. Well, come to think of it, I might be a lesbian!
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Posted: 2015-06-26 08:46:52

Nigerians watching gay porn?????? O_O
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Posted: 2015-06-26 11:45:45

The wise EDDIE posted the following on the VAS (Visiting A Shemale) thread some time ago...

"Everyone has different tastes and different levels of exploration, how about you let others entertain or experiment without criticism.

Interestingly the most homophobic often have the most latent homosexual tendencies.

Regards
ESA SUPPORT"

100% Accurate - according to the Harvard study...youreadygrandma.wordpress.com/2015/04/16/harvard-study-reveals-that-all-homophobic-people-are-gay/



PS: Please don't shoot the messenger (me), I am merely reporting some revelatory information :-)
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Posted: 2015-06-26 13:32:03

Leila, that Harvard link will come in very handy :) lemme bookmark it
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Posted: 2015-06-26 13:57:05

On 2015-06-26 13:32:03 Naledi said:
Leila, that Harvard link will come in very handy :) lemme bookmark it



Hehehe...be careful though, not all homophobes are ready to confront their "demons"...rather leave 'em to drown in the longest river in Africa...DE NILE...more food for the crocs :-p
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Posted: 2015-06-29 16:09:31

On 2015-06-26 13:57:05 Leila B said:
...more food for the crocs :-p



CROCS. Only thing I like about 'em is that they rhyme with c*cks ;-p Had some croc meat at THE CARNIVORE in Muldersdrift - BLEHHH! Gimme a rare steak any time of the day instead. Now a crocodile bag...hehe...the PETA peeps are gonna roast me :-p

So, scientifically irrefutable facts aside, we have to realise that most (if not all) people have some degree of internalised homophobia - even LGBT folk. [LGBT - Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender...an umbrella term] This is a product of the society in which we live. We are conditioned (brainwashed) into a "standardised" level of existence.

Admittedly, it does take a capable mind to dismantle the cage it has been imprisoned in...and a healthy, holistic sense of self (sans self-delusion).

I am reminded of the title of MAYA ANGELOU'S book, "I KNOW WHY THE CAGED BIRD SINGS". Maybe sexually repressed homophobes need to unsolicitedly proclaim their "straightness" and sing like canaries about it (mostly to themselves) because they feel trapped?
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Posted: 2015-06-29 23:12:54

Leila,I am not qualified to refute or corroborate what you profess.I can see you got a worthy message to share
I want to say I respect you because of your civil manner. You sure deal with authority about a very touchy subject..you did not take a stance yet...testing the water...I respecfully want to differ..I think the statement sound too wide..homophobic...I didnt check the dictionary definition.(yet)..phoby..would mean a fear of a sort ..right?..there may be many reasons for that..
But..you posted a question,let those defend themselve(s)..I am for sure biased against gay men...I dont see shemale as gay..I see you as more female as male...or am I totally ignorant..I mean..if you have titties which you do sure you NOT a man...I dont like men in a sexual sense..but I like Leila..You fall soft and nice on the eye..AND you are a very acceptable sensual sexy person...Me cant feel that way about another male...NEVER...But thats me...if I am wrong..hit me out of the park...
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Posted: 2015-06-30 00:21:39

TROMPIE, thank you for your very relevant and thought-provoking point of view.

The paradoxical thing about transsexuals is that we are neither male nor female, yet both. To some we are chicks with dicks - others might see us as boys with boobs. Neither is right - neither is wrong...it depends on the eyes observing...totally subjective.

What might still be unfathomable to those who have not been with a transsexual/shemale, is that the guys who enjoy a sexperience with us identify as straight. They are men who are attracted to women (femininity). The juxtaposition of the total femininity with the virile penis is fetish territory and the desire this inspires in most men, is absent when they observe a man, unless they are bisexual, of course. When we are attracted to someone, we (usually) cant see their genitals...we are attracted to the whole presentation, including voice, deportment, demeanor, attitude, etc.

What might be even more astonishing for the uninitiated, is the fact that some of the guys I've been with are homophobic. This further demonstrates just how subjective every person's views and experiences are.

Personally, I abhor labels, but for the purpose of advertising in this industry, I have to label myself Transsexual(shemale), which is the T in LGBT. So, in a way, I am a representative of this group, albeit a reluctant one, hence this post :-)

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