It is fascinating to read the reviews, the desires and wishes of the guys on the forums and, in those cases where the ladies respond, the variety of views, the “dancing rituals” and the various approaches. We are both unique and, in ways, looking for the same thing, but in different ways. It is also interesting to see how people move between phases and places, both the ladies and the guys. Great site, ESA!

Moving from the more philosophical to the practical – I also experience a bit of a move between desires. What I am looking for currently is a solid massage (with all the hallmarks of a professional one) with playful sensuality mixed in throughout. Let’s say, something similar to a professional full body oil massage with slight and stronger touching and massaging of erogenous zones throughout. A good pelvic massage, oh yes, but not necessarily as an end-goal, but at any stage where it fits naturally. I do love the tantric approach of ebb and flow, for instance. Now for the kicker part one – the therapist does not need to do this in full strip. I am all for a great body-to-body on most days, yes, but not necessarily in this one. Of course, should it be a hot day and the lady feels more comfortable that way… And then for the kicker part two- not necessarily looking for GFE or full FH (?), but would love a good BJ either during the massage or to cap off a super, unhurried session. All this perhaps in a double does not sound too horrible to me either.

Weird?

Fritz

First thought it was Fritz Deelman, the SA superspy of the early 80's.

Not weird at all.

I am sure you will receive PM's from a lot of ladies.

Just be discreet, the massage ladies do not appreciate the fact that some offer a little bit more than just hand relief.

Regards

Peter!

Oh, the superspy might have played a role somewhere in there :-).

Good to hear that it is not weird and thank you for the sound advice!