Hi people I've BEEN craving a punt for a while now. In June i decided to give a girl a call... Not from ESA... I went there, well she looked horrendous and was quite old, but that's besides the point. I couldn't go through with it. I felt extremely guilty without even going through with it! I paid her the full money because I didn't want to cause any unnecessary problems. But the guilt I felt from simply visiting her was extreme. I kept busy for the rest of the year but now since I've been free for a while... I'm thinking again... and it's been nagging at me to go... maybe I should just start with a strip club or just a massage?

So far the most of I've done is pay a cam model... but its not feeling enough...

Take that "extremely guilty" feeling you got and harness it in your memory and every time you feel like punting call up on that feeling and walk away!

Are you feeling guilty about the thought of punting or about being screwed over by a misleading ad? Figure that part out 1st.

If it's about punting then take daporra's advice.

If it's the latter then, find a well reviewed wg here that makes people feel comfortable. I recommend Lexus who was in Sandown when I saw her or Mina in Bryanston at the Spice parlour. They both make you feel very comfortable and welcome and you don't feel guilty about wasting money. Lexus is a very good gfe which looks like what you need. Mina is quite a bit younger amd tight smooth firm body if the looks part of your post has anything to do with your guilt.

Just close your eyes, pretty sure the girl will help you. Lol

The guilt feeling was the simple fact that I went there... The reasons why I didn't go through with it were the following:
- The guilt first of all (made a premeditated decision while driving there that I'm gonna bail)
- The venue, from the outside it didn't look good at all. The domestic worker that took me inside was quite rude and honestly I felt like I was being taken in to be killed. (Was like 11pm)
- Once inside...everything was pitch dark. As I'm new dunno if that's normal.
- The woman came and greeted, smelt cheap, looked cheap, she asked me to follow her inside the darkness. I hesitated until she turned on the light of the room we were gonna use.
- Once inside I saw her in all her glory... was not the best sight.
- IF she was hot... maybe I would have continued...but the guilty feeling would still be there...and would have been worse.

Everyone is different. If you are overcome by guilt then just stop.

If for whatever reason you want to continue get in contact with one or more of the better known ladies or venues on the forum.

Some the venues may be a better idea. A drink at the bar, no obligation to see it through to the expected conclusion. Who doesn’t enjoy a drink with pretty, liberated, free thinking ladies?

If you still feel uncomfortable then putting is not for you. And that is fine. It does not make you a failure, it does not mean there is something wrong with you. It just means that you are not the punting type.

Normally it is only the first and second time it is difficult. Thereafter you will get hooked and enjoy it. The guild start to disappear. For me it was easier in the beginning to go back to the same girl (mine was a good punt) then spread you wings to the other ladies to taste paradise.

Only u'lle know extent of your horniness and what's your fantasies. But agree about first and second time being the hardest.