Fetishes vary, some enjoy many different types at an inch deep and then some have a particular fetish that they zone in on and go a mile deep and they don't deviate much from their chosen fetish. I am enjoying playing in this 2nd world of mine by discovering what pushes my hot buttons and what doesn't. BUT I cannot explicitly define the drivers or determinants of my fetish or a fetish. There's a lovely lady that I have met via this forum and she is assisting me to further understand this yearn or lust (if a fetish can be defined as the latter). I would love to read some comments from both punters and WG'S without reference to definitions or articles taken from Google etc. Just your personal view would be interesting and may shed some light on this topic that has not been considered before or could be useful for further discussion. Thanks and regards LM

I am hijacking this thread to give Latex Mike a huge apology for not responding to a message that is like almost 3 weeks old.

Dear Mike
I am so embarrassed to say the least.
I did read your message and I intended to answer it in a few hours and then I totally forgot.
My guess is that somehow that same day I received many other PMs, way more than the norm and so your message fell out of the main message's page...

I am sorry sorry sorry.
I will answered tomorrow and I won't forget this time.

Muchos Besos querido.
Valentina Dibella.

While I was a child, I used to love watching female superheroes like She-Ra and Catwoman. They always had these tight fitting clothes wearing knee high boots. These images have stuck with me into my adulthood.

I notice that I have a fetish for leather, latex, boots. I have always booked a WG with boots and leather. I have also experimented a lot with BDSM.

Thank you Valentina. I look forward to reading your response. No need to apologise as I understand the dynamics of thus website as well as the preferences of communication between some of the ladies on this forum. I'm sure there's times where a heap of PM's male their way to you and as you mentioned... it's difficult to get through some of the clutter. I'm a patient gent so whenever you are happy to respond I'll be grateful. I also look forward to some extra maths lessons too ;) @Marcusm it's an interesting insight from you and it makes sense. We share similar fetishes... and since I opened this topic my journey has become a dream come true in this respect and my hot buttons are definitely being pushed. I hope to read further comments if this thread captures the imaginations of those who are prepared to write a little something.

I will love to explore the Bdsm lifestyle sometime. Always have been a fascinating of mine

Monroe what's your inner desire that drives this curiosity? Where does it stem from? It's these questions that makes me wonder why each person has a particular fetish . I find peculiar and fascinating at the same time...

hmmm good question the ultimate trust and connection never seen a bond stronger than that... the way i can let go and break free testing my limits and fears letting someone else be in total control.
In all honesty im not sure i think because im a very strong person i want someone that can conquer me in way.

With bdsm and dominatrix there is a very clear, desisive line that must be understood. These kind of fetishes are very common.
Dominatrix is sexual humiliation using techniques such as bongade, bowing and lightly forced sexual acts.
BDSM is a pain induced act also using bondage and forced sexual acts but includes pain in the form of torture, cutting etc.
I can do both and luckily with a medical background, I won't be able to hurt a client too badly

Useful definition to distinguish the 2. Thanks Nicole.

What your opinions on this FinDom thing that seems to be going around... it seems such nonsense to me.
I am open to people expressing themselves in what ever way blows their hair back, but FinDom just seems so contrived.