This is a continuation of the how much is enough / too much debate, but from a different perspective.

I have been doing this for about 11 years now. Started in Amsterdam. I think I lost count at about 200 girls. This really startled me when I actually thought about it.

Think about it for yourself. On average 2 girls a month. Thats 24 girls a year. Over 11 years that is about 264 girls. Not necessarily all different, but I would say about 90% with different girls.

Have you guys thought about this? Whats your average? How many years?

Have you sometimes had girls give you feedback that you fuck well (and mean it)?

I suppose in a sense, if you have experience with so many woman, you must have learn't something (at least by now). I also refer to my pussy position debate I started about a month ago referring to girls of different race and how their vaginas are positioned either up or closer to the anus. Some generalisations. But I must say that it is as true to generalise as it is to prove the exception. And some guys highlighted those too. Its all good!

In all this time. Never contracted anything - touch wood. So far I have not had a 1 in 264 chance. But I suppose the odds are building.

Bareback is Russian Roulette. In my younger days I may have made a few errors in judgment. But nowadays, alot more careful.

is a blow job with a condom on ddangerous?

Arod, that depends on your definition of dangerous.

You could still easily contract HSV (I mean herpes, not HIV) if the girl has it and touches her lips to your bare skin down there ANYWHERE (ball licking, etc.)

However, by the age of *12*, most people already HAVE HSV (usually the oral kind), and are unlikely to show symptoms.

Don't think there's much else you could catch if you've got a condom on though. Even without a condom, there's not much you could catch that a course of antibiotics couldn't sort out anyway.

The only scary one is, of course, HIV. However, unless she has huge open sores in her mouth, and uses her teeth enough to scratch your dick, I think the chances of YOU contracting it are quite slim.

I recommend that you do some reading up on the common STDs and make the decision for yourself.

Latin Lover,

I've been doing this for 5 years now. Started when I was 27. I usually visit 2-3 girls a week, usually 1-2 are 'regular' and then I try one new one. Sometimes I take a break for a few months though if work, etc. gets hectic, or if I am in a more serious relationship with someone.

I started off just wanting a good massage (no hand job or anything), and, well, the first girl I was visiting 'broke me in', as she put it, after the third visit!

So far, no STDs. I don't do bareback, although I do enjoy OWO. I go for a test every 4-6 months (I did this even before I starting punting), and so should all of you!

I must admit that I wish I'd kept a diary from the beginning to keep track, both of how much I've spent and how many girls I've visited. I would estimate maybe 75 to 100 different girls.

I've had some girls compliment both my cock and my stamina, but it's always difficult to judge whether she really means it or is just angling for a tip!

However, at least three girls have offered me freebies at various stages. They phone or SMS, we chat, and they ask if I want to come over, I say I'm busy or don't have R600 to spare, and they say they're horny, can I please come over anyway, no charge.

Quite a few girls I visited have now left the business, but I am still in touch with a small subset of them; one I would classify as a 'fuck buddy'... The other (fairly classy) girls I'm in contact with are now 'just friends'. Apparently this is not uncommon in the industry I'm involved in (film and advertising).

I even dated one once she'd left the business, but it didn't last long. Although, not for the reasons you might suspect. She told me that I was 'a great lover, but a shit boyfriend'... jawellnofine!

I've found that I've become a lot more fussy about the girls though; in the beginning, I would stay no matter how dodgy the place or the girl. No really bad experiences as a result, but it always felt like a waste of money afterwards. Now though, I will quite happily walk out of a place if I don't like it, or the girl, for whatever reason.

I have been doing this for about 5years. Some good. Some bad. I visited 1-3 times a month a girl. In shortmarket street there was a short, busty colored girl by the name of Tracey. They charged R100 per half an hour and R120 PEr hour! Wow she was great. The building closed down because it was not in a good state at all. N0t upmarket at all. But quite safe though. Ive lost contact with her. Ive spent any thing from R100-R350 per visit. I 2 hav lost count of how many girls ive done but if i had 2 giv a number it wil between 100-150. The best ever service i got was from a girl in Seapoint but has n0w m0ved 2 Greenpoint. I will visit her 1 m0re time and wil give u m0re details about her.

I've been doing this for about 7 years. Started with street walkers. I can tell you guys that back in 2000 the girls on Wynberg Main road were superb. Young, pretty, presentable and well dressed. And plentiful at least a few on every corner. Nothing like the sorry excuse for whores that stand there these days. It started out of curiosity, I would watch a pretty one from a distance and then jerk off in my car. Sad yes but I didn't have the guts to go up and talk to one. I would do dumb shit like pull over close to them and pretend to speak on my phone just so that they could come closer so I could get a better look. Eventually I gave in and picked up a fair skinned girl and that was my first time (blowjob and sex with condom). Then I got hooked and it was a hell of a thrill searching for and picking up a girl. I used to do about 2 girls a week. I have to be brutally honest with you guys. I was very naive back then, when a girl told me she was 19 I believed she was 19. Looking back, I realise that some of the girls I picked up were definitely underage. I still can't understand how I never realised this back then. Maybe 'cos I was pretty young as well and I couldn't tell. All I remember is that Wynberg Main road had a lot of young ones. I feel bad about that now but there's nothing I can do about it, karma's still gonna get me for it I guess. I remember a newspaper article speaking about a shebeen off Wynberg Main road pimping out girls as young as 7 (there was an escort agency in that same road, where Begham used to work) I still see plenty of activity there and I wonder if it's still going on. It's seriously dodgy. These days I can spot a kiddie from a mile off, the girls that stand opposite the parade especially. They look very scruffy and I'm sure they're street kids.

Anyway, from street walkers I moved to proper working girls. Much, much better. I must say though that I have calmed down a lot these days. I maybe visit an escort once every four months. Sometimes I binge and visit 3 a week but that's very rare. I'm still tempted to pick up the odd street walker (quick and cheap for when you're horny) but as many of us have pointed out street walker quality in Cape Town is terrible and from experience, I really should stop doing it. Oh, and I've never had sex with a working girl without a condom but on my first visit with an escort I did get owo and covered greek.

I realised about 2 years ago that I actually lost count, but a rough estimate I would say 300 - 400 girls in this biz. and prob R100K + easily !! well then again I probably spent that amount on porn alone over the years...

Started of my very, very, very first 'paid for' at a place called Las Vegas in Pretorius Street central pretoria, after driving past it many nights in a row, I remember I eventually went there on a Saturday night, and that Tuesday after a picked up my very first streetwalker in Church street.

I've not picked up a streetwalker since 2004 though, and like some of you have mentioned that your tastes improved,
so did mine by avoiding the houses & spots with ugly girls.

As for bareback, I'm not going to pretend not to have done it, even with a stunning blonde who still advertises on this ESA site!!!

i started with my first about 18 years ago in London when i was young and probably went at least once a week on friday after getting paid (for about 8-10years)i slowed down a bit in later life and since being in SA only about 1 or 2 a month back in the days it was more massage parlours than houses so to work out about +-750 if i add BJ to that probably a 100 more and a shit load of money my first time was 35 pounds for full massage, BJ and Fuck with condom as i have never ever not used a condom my last time was R500 for BJ and a fuck

I have been going to working girls now since 2002. Thats when sites like this 1 starting popping up and got me curious. I will admit that I stopped a few times for street action before that but I always chickened out, something just did not work for me and made me nervous. I liked that I could see them on the Internet and then talk with them directly.

For me its about 2 times a month, I use this like vitamin supplements although I have spats of 3 days in row or couple in one day but that does not happen to often anymore. Times like now when I'm seeing a girl on a regular basis I still see a working girl a few times a month. Love making sex with your girl friend is great but I still just want to by pass all the BS sometimes and get right down to getting it on and variety is the spice of life, this allows you to have it with no strings. In fact this is cheaper when U consider the cost of dinner wine, drinks going to a club, man that is one expensive lay.

Started in 1992 ... number of girls ... Lost count. Money spend ... Thousands and thousands. I have never done streetwalkers only upmarket escort agencies.

I went on a binge this week ... basically every day a different girl and I realised that maybe it's better to stay with the regular girls you know ... Both knows exactly what the other wants, likes and dislikes. You build sort of an understanding and trust and most of the time get treatment that they normally don't do ...