Last night I got a call from a working girl I visit on a regular basis. She was in a panic. Her roommate had kicked her out and she desperately needed a place to stay for the night. Because iam a soft hearted chap I agree to help her. So I go driving around the northern suburbs like a blue arse fly trying to follow the directions she give me. When I find her she tells me to go to her work place to pick up some clothes. More driving around. Eventually we get back to my place. I order a pizza and open a bottle of wine. We have nice evening chatting and watching TV.

Now the problem is - what do I get for all my effort ? nothing, not even a BJ. I would even have been satisfied with a hand job but got nothing. She fell asleep on my couch watching Zorro

so - in other words - you did this just to get a sexual favour? Would you expect the same from any of your other female friends if they were in a jam?

maybe this girl actually thought of you as a real friend.

If she ends up being a mooch and overstaying her welcome or taking you for a ride - that's another matter completely.

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Couldn't agree more bblwuv, last night I drove to JHB Park station at 6:30pm to pick up a working girl from a bus, all I got was a hug and a thank you, if I want sexual favours I will go and book her and pay the required fee.
We are all in busines so are they, If you give your bank manager a lift will he give you free money??? NO!!! SO?

i am being facetious (google it, i had to) if i wanted sex, i would have asked (i did not). its the matter of overstaying her welcome which worries me a bit

I wouldn't worry she has already sold all your furnture and hired out your flat to 3 Nigerians 2 Somalians 10 Zimbabwians who are busy reselling your Telkom line to 50 000 Nigerians who are calling home right now - have fun:)

Hey jon blogs

Let me first complement you on coming to the girl's aid.
I am certainly not in you shoes. Allthough I have a big house and a flatlet, my significant other will get a real fit if I bring any woman home for whatever reason.

If I was single, I most probably would have taken her in as well and if I cared enough to come to her aid, I would care enough to help her find another place to live and would discuss it with her openly. Your situation may not be as simplistic as this though.

Cheers

Garry

Yup ... forget about sex or a BJ ... Your problem is getting her out!! ... and the Nigerians ...lol

ROFL Markt!!

I've had a similar thing happen to me.

A working girl I'd been visiting for about a year called me up late at night crying. As I've said before, I keep a seperate number for 'play' and I'd actually told the girl she could call anytime, I wouldn't mind. Anyway, she was getting freaked out by the other girls doing drugs at the house she was at, and the client getting all pushy that she should snort some too. She had locked herself in the bathroom. She asked if I could please come and fetch her.

So, sap that I am, I hop in my car and head on over to the address she gave me. As I approached the place (somewhere in Hout Bay), I was beginning to wonder if I shouldn't have taken my gun out of the safe and brought it with me...

Luckily, the lady had managed to scramble out of the window, and with a short jump (into my arms!) she was out of the house. Phew, I didn't need to go inside!

Once in the car, I asked her 'where to?' But, she had nowhere to go... And she'd left her bag, with her phone and money, in the house. What's a guy to do?

She spent the night at (my rather small) place, in bed with me. No sex expected or offered though. I was pretty tired after a long week, and she was still quite shaken up. I suspect this would also be the case with your girl!

Made her breakfast in the morning while she had a shower and put on some of my clothes (she hadn't been wearing much when I picked her up). Let her use the phone to call around to some of her friends, and then later in the afternoon gave her a lift there. So, no problem with her overstaying her welcome.

I thought that would be the end of it, but she called me up about 2 weeks later, and asked me to come round to her friends place for dinner. I said sure.

Anyway, she'd made a pretty good curry dish, which I quite enjoyed. She asked if I wanted dessert, I said yes. Well, dessert was her! Quite unexpected actually. During dinner she'd been saying that she'd decided to get out of the business, and was going back to her family in Durban. Anyway, I ending up spending the night there after quite a few rounds. And then once again in the morning! Had to be quick though before her friend came back. ;-)

She's now in Durban, and it sounds like she probably has a boyfriend/husband. However, she's said that if I ever want some company when I'm in Durban, I must please give her a call.

So, a nice story, hey? It could have turned out badly though, so be CAREFUL with letting strange girls into your place. I don't think I'd let her stay longer than a day, and certainly not while I wasn't also home.

just been home - not a single nigerian in sight. she was however supervising my domestic cleaning the house. the place has never looked so good