Any guys in same boat as we where u and ur wife/ gf both work from home? How to you visit escorts without them knowing and time being limited before ur other half wonders where u are?
Any tips pls?

Here are some tips Johan.

www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php

Hi there

Check this thread called "Excuse used to go punting".

Im in the same boat as you basically, some guys gave some good tips/advice.

Thanks guys

Thanks guys

Why don't you give her a voucher for a massage and book a time. That way you can also slip out for a "massage", same time. Xxx

Depends on your wife bud. And how much she wants to know what you doing all the time. You will know the answer to that question but calculate the risks and what could happen marraige wise and to the rest of you guys relationship. If it's just sex or forms of massage maybe you can send her away for a beauty treatment or to do her hair etc.

On 2024-07-12 07:54:15 Johan4 said:
Any guys in same boat as we where u and ur wife/ gf both work from home? How to you visit escorts without them knowing and time being limited before ur other half wonders where u are?
Any tips pls?

Given the followiing assumptions I make from what you shared:

- Wife knows nothing about gf or escorts (That makes her the fixed variable you plan around)
- GF knows about your wife and things must bee discreet in a way sue will not suspect and that creates opportunity to use your wife as a reasin for having ot camcel or not be available and play victim of ccircumstances and remind her she knows. (That is a very flexible variable that can always be optiion 1.)

Questions: Is your girlfriend married or single? (i hooe married or you made Mistake #1 in the Cheating 101 guide .. nevet get into a liong term affair if your married and their not.. Risk vs Consequence to get caught and damage suffered must be equal.. is she is single and this is an already long term affair with emotions and tagts why the escort is hidden from her also. (Bad training and expectation creation mate.. if you go for a single make sure that she is at lleast open to way way more liike going to a strip cliub or being much more openmindes than the wife.. other wise why have her..

Sounds to me she is like a wife..

There are feelings and ahe wants more than you might think.. which in maths means 1 + 1 = You are kind of fucked anyway even disregarding escorts because she can have a have shit fit whenever and is use her trump card..

Btw ... newsflash ... that day will come.. i dpnt know when but know her behaviour patterns and if body language over time gets tense. Run

Personally if she is single an di was you my plan b wokdl be to line a willing mate or colleague up to start consoling am dbeing a shoulder when you aee get cajnge so he can kinda almost fuck you out of the shit and let her dump you and she thinks she wins

Take your car to the car wash and Uber to your SP, then when you are done you Uber back to the car wash ... ;)

@DanTheMan79 - I suspect he(Johan4) is asking for advice on how to get time off to see an escort when you are in a relationship with a " Wife OR Girlfriend " whom works from home with you.

If you are correct and he meant that he has a "Wife AND Girlfriend" and still needs time to see escorts; well, then this gent has bigger problems, because he is playing with fire, gasoline and TNT :-)