I recently visited a girl in Pretoria. Whilst fingering her she started to bleed quite abit. I stopped after I saw the blood but i am now very worried as we had sex thereafter with protection but I had a cut on my finger which I did not think about. Started getting a sore throat this weekend and ferling a little sick. Any helpful comments please. What do I do?

Don't stress. There are lots of perfectly normal bugs going around, and that almost certainly is what you have. The window period for HIV testing is getting shorter and shorter, so get tested as soon as you can to put your mind at ease. Good luck!

Still shagged her after the bleeding?

Yes this stupid but my concern was not the shag as put on a dome but the cut on my finger whilst i was fingering her.
Is there a quick test I can do now to confirm. Over the counter test.

This is one of my many regrets as a punter and i dont even punt often. Should i call the girl and ask her to test?

@bob99. Get yourself a over the counter test available at most pharmacies.

bob99, remember that you need to wait for the window period before testing if you go the home testing route - 4-6 weeks for the normal tests minimum. If you are seriously stressed, RNA and PCR tests can be done 2 weeks after exposure (RNA perhaps even a week).

I don't suggest asking the status of a working girl; any WG who is positive is unlikely to give out that information for business reasons. I did have (in my younger days) a WG respond to my request as to whether she was HIV positive after a condom break with "I'm positive................that the look on your face just now was priceless!"

Sorry dude. A sore throat! It's tickets for you ????

@bob99, how big is the cut and if it's small then chances are tiny. If you stress about it then you'll believe and start seeing that you positive. Dude chill, I have been sleeping with a girl that is positive for a year so far, but the day I knew that she is positive. I started stressing and believing until results came up then I stopped. So man chill, there's nothing you can do now just chill and prepare yourself for worst and the best so that you ready to face it.