I am curious to know if there are any ladies on here that currently do not have profiles on the site but have an interest in being in an arrangement ?

I a looking for someone that hasn't been involved in the sex trade but would be interested in seeking out an arrangement with an affluent white male in his early 40's....

The arrangement can be discusses but the rewards are extremely generous .....

Lady in question would have to be of a serious type of beauty....

Sorry if this might offend some people but I have always been interested in what type of a response an ad like this ight get on this site.....

Hi there
Am interested

Kelly, he is not looking for a working girl.

But isn't ESA a site for just that, WG?

Yes it is for WGs but as you pay for a profile ad on here I also pay for a gold member subscription.... I am curious to see the reaction my ad would cause and if there might be someone interested in doing something like this, who has maybe thought of becoming a WG but might be interested in trying something like this before they choose that avenue....

I have a few questions to ask if I may?

1)Why must the lady not have a active add here since you are advertising for her here???

2)Why exactly should she not have a sextrade background? when you are advertising on a escort site.

3)What kind of arrangement are you talking about.

4)What is in it for the lady.

5)What do you perceive as beauty as beauty is in the eye of the beholder ;)

6)Are you beautiful? again remember what the other person perceives to be as beautiful might not be the same as your perception ;)

I'm just a curious bugger :)

Curiosity is a good thing ;)

1.I thought in respect to putting an ad out on this site would conform to ladies that might want to join the industry but they might be nervous about it .... Hence a good option might be with one guy and not many for them.... Secondly you would be surprised at how many ladies are currently advertising for this on other sites that are advertising on ESA.... So not sure what the issue would be with me asking the question on a site like this .....

2. There is allot of drama that comes with this industry and I am not comfortable with doing this with someone that has a large client base and could easily revert back to the industry without me knowing....Exclusivity is essential in doing something like this...

3. Type of arrangement well that depends... I am a border line workaholic so my schedule is pretty demanding and yes it is maybe meeting up a couple of times a week a sleep over here and there.... Depends as it has to suit both parties regarding scheduling and timing... Other than that she gets to do what she wants in her free time.....whether that be studying or going to her daytime job.....

4.Well allot actually. There is an allowance every month and yes you would be surprised at how much it can be ..... I wont share rand amounts with you, but yes it is well and above a living wage ...... I don't either feel comfortable talking about amounts unless I am talking to the lady that I a doing this with .....

5. Beauty..... Physically looking after yourself , good sense of humour, wise to the world and yes someone that does turn heads .... I cant define beauty for you because everyone has there own standards but I think most people should know if they are or not....

6. Well I wouldn't regard myself as beautiful , I would prefer to say handsome because beauty comes in many forms Arhwen.....I don't do this because I look like a dead pig.... I do this for convenience and for discretion and to tell you the truth whether there is no response to this or allot of people that don't like what I have on here it doesn't really make a difference as nothing ventured nothing gained ..... I am not going to lose sleep over it....

I a not new to this site and I have been a member for a while now and I have counted before on the forum regarding this very same subject.... I don't comment on much on here because I don't really think I have to much to comment on but some of the subjects are interesting and funny....

So like I have said before if this offends people on here then it is what it is I guess...

Reading this got me smiling , there is potential in this gesture however to the lady that may consider going this route be sure to dot your i's and cross your t's in a formal agreement with what the party is offering as you may very quickly find out that the juice was not worth the squeeze , Talk is cheap and money buys whiskey.

I see scenarios where this becomes a possessive relationship based on power and the girl who goes for it better retain her balance so that she can get the hell out whenever if you become dependant you're buggered and the power will be in the hands of the one controlling the purse, and that person will expect he's way whenever.

Put the expectations down on a formal agreement signed by both to protect both!

Heads up this could become K@K very quickly.

Very good advice Loco and I don't disagree with you at all. In life you will always face risks. You lessen the chance of taking those risks by making sure you are covered. Firstly the lady doing this should always ask for a retainer up front. Secondly always meet in a public area with the guy, chat first and see if you have some things in common.... Don't sleep with the guy the first time when you meet him .... This is how the lady in question should approach something like this....

I am not looking to be a permanent job for someone, that's why it should be preferably be with someone that has a job or is studying..... To be honest with you a contract is a big stretch for any person doing this because because most guys prefer discretion .... You pay a monthly allowance, after both people agree to start the arrangement ..... Pay it up front and well the SD takes that risk that she will come back. Needs good judgement from both people involved....

Curiosity killed the cat....

I don't know if you are still reading the comments to this post looping, I have not seen the post until today.

If my understanding is correct based upon the comments above, it sounds a lot like what was done in 50 shades of grey?

I can understand that there is risks involved for the girl however just be careful for yourself as well sweet heart.

You know girls could reach the same emotion as a man, and should you after a while realize she was not what you expected, you