Hey Guys

So basically ive been a silent member for a while Just increasing my knowledge and enjoying what everybody has to say.

Im turning 20 next month and still a virgin, never had a gf, never been kissed and never dated, mainly because of growing up in a strict, conservative, christian household.

Should I just take the plunge and become a punter or will punting not live up to the real thing(having a relationship with a girl)?

Any advice appreciated.

Thanx guys.

The answer is no! Don't go the punting route. Now go stand in the corner & think about what you asking.
Why do want to miss out on all the best parts of your youth? First kiss, falling in love, heartaches, parties, mutual love?
A WG can offer you many of the things that your penis desires but nothing that your head wants or heart needs..... Punting is a fantasy world! Find something real & meaningful before you delve into fantasy else reality will never be enough or ever satisfy u fully.
Good luck and hopefully goodbye

Porcupine is so right. A WG experience can never make up for the experience with your first GF or friend with benefits. The connection just isn't the same.
The experience with a WG is gonna be a waste of money for starters 'cos you're gonna shoot your load even before you get your pants down and then 2 seconds into the playing you'll shoot again (that's if he lady doesn't have a cum once policy). She'll start Oral and another 2 seconds and you're done. Then If you're lucky to get a 4th chance, your hard-on isn't hard enough for the deed.

And you'll have nothing to brag to your friends abou. Its kinda lame to tell your friends you lost your virginity to a hooker.

Besides if you start punting before you start living you may not be able to turn back and as previously stated theres just too much you will miss out on.

what can you guys advise for a bit of female interaction for me?

Hayride, I hope you’re legit on this forum and not some attention seeker. You wouldn’t want your sexual reality to be dominated by hookers and not much else, especially at your young age. There is a time and place for them, sure, but losing your virginity isn’t one of them. I suggest you take it easy and be yourself, because nothing screams “desperate” louder than trying too hard with women. When it comes to women, be a good listener rather than a talker. Good luck!

Actually I disagree with the replies. If you're relationship oriented then rather avoid WGs at all costs. If you wish to become a womaniser, then by all means dive in and get some WGs. It'll help your confidence with women a million times, especially knowing that even if you don't get the girl your eye is on you always have a WG to fall back on.

You may also develop the wrong expectations for when you do find a girl friend.

I say go for it and take the plunge! If it really is your first time, then masturbate before you go, so you won't pop too quickly.

I understand the guys' advice here trying to dissuade you from punting, but I'm a realist, and now that you've discovered ESA, you WILL become a punter, so you might as well make it sooner than later.

I think you asking that here speaks volumes about the quality of experience you will end up with. It's pretty sad having to pay for your first time.
Most girls around your age are fascinated by a guy who is still a virgin at your age. Play your cards right and you could be fighting them off. But turn into the sort of douche bag who throws money at this situation and I'm afraid you will find yourself paying forever.
Don't delude yourself. The WG are there to take your money, proving yourself to be a sucker is going to get yourself hurt. The GFE is really a marketing tool. Don't think for a moment you are special or "different" to the others they screw for money day in and day out.
Live and grow up.
My best advice to you would be to leave the forums and only come back when you've really lived your life.