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Price negotiations.. Why do it?
Posted: 2022-03-08 12:00:03
Does a guy really feel he is going to have a pleasant satisfying experience after negotiating a girls price?
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Re: Price negotiations.. Why do it?
Posted: 2022-03-08 12:30:57
Edited: 2022-03-08 12:30:56
Edited: 2022-03-08 12:30:56
Alice I agree with you. In life you get what you pay for
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Re: Price negotiations.. Why do it?
Posted: 2022-03-08 12:41:22
I honestly don't get it, either. If a lady's fee is too high for your liking, phone the next one.
On 2022-03-08 12:00:03 Alice said:
Does a guy really feel he is going to have a pleasant satisfying experience after negotiating a girls price?
I honestly don't get it, either. If a lady's fee is too high for your liking, phone the next one.
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Re: Price negotiations.. Why do it?
Posted: 2022-03-08 13:12:22
My guess - such a guy will think he has scored - financially.
He will assume the actual experience will be the same, but this is not necessarily true as the girl also has a role to play ...
On 2022-03-08 12:00:03 Alice said:
Does a guy really feel he is going to have a pleasant satisfying experience after negotiating a girls price?
My guess - such a guy will think he has scored - financially.
He will assume the actual experience will be the same, but this is not necessarily true as the girl also has a role to play ...
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Re: Price negotiations.. Why do it?
Posted: 2022-03-08 13:24:07
I guess it would depend on how well the negotiations went. Perhaps it ended up win-win?
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Re: Price negotiations.. Why do it?
Posted: 2022-03-08 13:42:55
Cant I negotiate upwards :)
On 2022-03-08 12:00:03 Alice said:
Does a guy really feel he is going to have a pleasant satisfying experience after negotiating a girls price?
Cant I negotiate upwards :)
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Re: Price negotiations.. Why do it?
Posted: 2022-03-08 13:55:19
I don't negotiate - always pay the asking price, and so often its requested upfront.
But sometimes, the service is so poor and lacklustre, it wasnt worth the paid amount.
I often see reviews where guys say "it would have been worth it if she charged Rxxx instead of Rxxxx.
So i guess some guys are negotiating as a safety net - if service was poor, then it was at their price.
On the other hand, some girls go through some quiet periods, where they invite punters to make an offer for a particular service - half a loaf better than no bread scenario.
I was getting constant messages at one stage, from a massage girl i visited once. Calls were probably quiet and she was desperately marketing herself to clients, even inviting negotiations to her regular prices
But sometimes, the service is so poor and lacklustre, it wasnt worth the paid amount.
I often see reviews where guys say "it would have been worth it if she charged Rxxx instead of Rxxxx.
So i guess some guys are negotiating as a safety net - if service was poor, then it was at their price.
On the other hand, some girls go through some quiet periods, where they invite punters to make an offer for a particular service - half a loaf better than no bread scenario.
I was getting constant messages at one stage, from a massage girl i visited once. Calls were probably quiet and she was desperately marketing herself to clients, even inviting negotiations to her regular prices
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Re: Price negotiations.. Why do it?
Posted: 2022-03-08 14:02:08
Edited: 2022-03-08 14:11:42
Edited: 2022-03-08 14:11:42
I have got no problems if a guy is only like R50 short. What I have a problem is a guy who is R200 short and I am expected to be happy because at least I got half a loaf, but he expects a whole loaf of service. He isn't prepared to cut down on the time and then still says he wants to come more than once and doesn't want to be rushed. He knows I am not gonna give substandard service, frankly, I dunno how to.
So he must rather come for xyz when I running a special xyz, no more no less at a reduced rate.
So he must rather come for xyz when I running a special xyz, no more no less at a reduced rate.
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Re: Price negotiations.. Why do it?
Posted: 2022-03-08 14:09:53
Hello Alice,
Thats why my profile states No negotiation
My fee is my fee
On 2022-03-08 12:00:03 Alice said:
Does a guy really feel he is going to have a pleasant satisfying experience after negotiating a girls price?
Hello Alice,
Thats why my profile states No negotiation
My fee is my fee
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Re: Price negotiations.. Why do it?
Posted: 2022-03-08 14:44:45
Forget him, I'll give you twice what you're asking :):):)
DD
On 2022-03-08 12:00:03 Alice said:
Does a guy really feel he is going to have a pleasant satisfying experience after negotiating a girls price?
Forget him, I'll give you twice what you're asking :):):)
DD
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