My membership is new to ESA- great site and very user friendly. Once a booking is confirmed and I rock up at the WG's place and due to her face not being displayed on ESA ( for understandable privacy reasons ) , and then I decide that I am just not attracted to this lady at all after meeting her in person am I obliged to stick to the appointment and follow through? Jokes aside - what is the general rule of thumb? Thx

Rule of thumb? If there are nigerians you are fucked anyway.

If the girl is not to your liking politely decline and say you don't want to go thru with it. 99% of the time they will demand a cancellation fee.

If you really want to be a bastard, say you forgot your wallet in the car and bail!

I would normally pay a cancellation fee of R100 - R200 unless she clearly lied about her age or if she's a drugged up where then I say f@#£& her

Thanks gents- appreciate your feedback. The cancellation fee makes sense and seems fair.

And if a lady asks you if you are happy to stay....please be honest and so no and go rather than stay and make it unpleasant for her! I always ask my clients the first time if they are happy to stay when I greet them cause I would rather have them leave than massage someone that does not like me!

Shelley, it does make sense with your approach.