I remember hearing that phrase while
growing up. It was always used with
the understanding that being “of
substance” generally meant
“successful”, “classy” and so on.
Being a man (or woman) of substance
meant to be and act like one from the
upper echelons of society. I’ve learned
something different, which is my
understanding. What I’ve learned about
the pre-conceived ideal of “substance”
is, it usually is met with shallowness
and haughtiness. Not of “substance” at
all…rather a LACK of true substance.
All is done for face value, with the
desire to succeed and be noticed.
The last couple of weeks has definitely
opened my eyes to the RIGHTFUL
definition of “substance”. One is phony,
the other is real and cannot truly be
faked for “face value”.
Perhaps this is due to my experience
with the Monster, as well as my own
natural level of empathy. I don’t know,
but I think this is something we all
should strive for in our own lives.
Being a person of substance is
showing consideration for others, first
and foremost! It doesn’t mean faking it
to get what one wants. It means
understanding others’ shortcomings
and helping where ever possible. It
means putting yourself LAST on
occasion for a friend, partner, co-
worker or even someone you don’t
know. How hard is it to take the brush
and help clear a car of snow? How
hard is it to make one extra pie for
someone who needs their day
brightened?
Appologise Ben , Your presense is missed
xxxx
AJ