Have been reading the forum and seen some posts regarding kissing, GFE etc.

This is more of a personal question and would be interested in the ladies' views too.

When my partner and I met I remember the kissing that accompanied our lovemaking sessions which is normal. Very quickly she started complaining that the stubble on my top lip (I shave almost daily) scratches/pokes her. I've tried everything to keep my face as hair free as possible-shaving right before we go to bed, waxing, different blades, even burnt my face off almost trying that liquid hair remover on my top lip and laser. I also put a lot of effort into mouth hygiene, get my teeth cleaned professionally and brush more times a day including before bed time. Another excuse she also had was that she doesn't like kissing after I've given her a muff, that I can understand to an extent.

Now there is almost zero kissing even at the start of love making. I will start kissing her almost immediately she'll push my face down to her tits which she enjoys alot. But no kissing on the lips. Frequency of sex is still the same, we have sex often.

So recently I asked her what is the problem,why do we not kiss when we have sex. She says that her sexual preferences have changed, kissing doesn't turn her on anymore. Outside of sex, we give each other the occasional peck on the cheek or mouth, but no real kissing.

Not sure what to make of all this as we are still having regular sex, but it's almost like doing it with a wg that doesn't kiss.

Am I making too much about this?

Anyone have experienced this in their personal relationships? Guys often complain about lack of sex or bj's (that's a whole other topic for another day) but what about lack of kissing?

I should also have added in case it is relevant, we're only together about 2 years and she's fairly young, 32 do there shouldn't really be issues such as menopause and as I mentioned we have sex regularly at least 3 times a week.

JHB22...

Treat the type of kissing that you want as if though it is a clit so that means dont use kissing as an opener/foreplay but rather as the main deed while you're having the actual deed because it is at this moment that the moment is heightened where she will be more likely to indulge herself.

If you know what I mean.

I could go into detail but I think you know what you're doing.

You could even begin kissing the way that you want to kiss just as she's about to climax and locking passionately throughout her climax and only letting loose long after. To be done while in missionary and/or cowgirl.

In missionary dont put all your weight on her, hover above her instead and cushion her head by wrapping your strong arm loosely beneath her neck and throw the pillows away.

Now thats fucking intimate.

In cowgirl pull her upper body down onto your chest or face and slide further down her body and stroke deep while slapping her ass gently but loud and continue to slap that ass harder and harder but not toooooooo fucking hard, simultaneously holding onto her one breast with your other hand and squeeze gently but firm.

Now thats fucking intimidation baba!!!

Turn your wife/lover into your very own slut, I command you!!!

KingSuperFuck

On 2022-02-02 12:06:48 SuperFuck said:
JHB22...

Treat the type of kissing that you want as if though it is a clit so that means dont use kissing as an opener/foreplay but rather as the main deed while your having the actual deed because it is at this moment that the moment is heightened whereby she will be more likely to indulge herself.

If you know what I mean.

Hmm I get your point, but she is normally quite warmed up carrasing her back, playing with her breasts and slipping my hands down her panties and she's normally soaking wet already once I move in for the kiss. But you've given me food for thought, perhaps wait even a bit longer.

It's just that I've never had this issue in any past relationships and it bothers me, I'm even doubting her romantic (not sexual) attraction towards me. Maybe she enjoys the sex but doesn't have strong romantic feelings towards me, although she expresses that she does.

Must I now start seeing WG's if I want intimate kissing?

Also reconsider your kissing technique to make her crave it.

I can elaborate. Let me know if I should.

Oxytocin

On 2022-02-02 09:59:30 JHB22 said:
Have been reading the forum and seen some posts regarding kissing, GFE etc.

This is more of a personal question and would be interested in the ladies' views too.

When my partner and I met I remember the kissing that accompanied our lovemaking sessions which is normal. Very quickly she started complaining that the stubble on my top lip (I shave almost daily) scratches/pokes her. I've tried everything to keep my face as hair free as possible-shaving right before we go to bed, waxing, different blades, even burnt my face off almost trying that liquid hair remover on my top lip and laser. I also put a lot of effort into mouth hygiene, get my teeth cleaned professionally and brush more times a day including before bed time. Another excuse she also had was that she doesn't like kissing after I've given her a muff, that I can understand to an extent.

Now there is almost zero kissing even at the start of love making. I will start kissing her almost immediately she'll push my face down to her tits which she enjoys alot. But no kissing on the lips. Frequency of sex is still the same, we have sex often.

So recently I asked her what is the problem,why do we not kiss when we have sex. She says that her sexual preferences have changed, kissing doesn't turn her on anymore.

Am I making too much about this?

Maybe tell her how you feel about kissing and yes her preferance has changed but I believe that relationship should have some form of compromise
Kissing is very intimate