Please share your knowledge with the more green up-and-coming members of the community.

Dos
Donts
Watchouts

Help your fellow man avoid pitfalls.

Please.

Never pay upfront.
If you're visiting a venue, discuss rates and expectations upfront and not 'in the room.'
Don't fall in love despite how many will make you feel- it's a business transaction end of the day.
Be respectful at all times but don't be a doormat.
Always be nice and clean, or shower beforehand.
Repeat - be respectful and don't be a doos. The ladies worth their professional weight in gold will reciprocate in kind.
Oh, and get a punting phone!

Verry well said!!

Check reviews, comments, warnings and recommendations, it will save you a lot of school fees.

Communicate effectively (keep information requests to rates, services, availability and location), be punctual (arrive on time and if you are running late or need to postpone or cancel communicate, be clean (always shower at the sp's place even if you showered at your own place before arrival - the lady will feel more comfortable knowing first hand that you are clean), shave down there (this is debatable but works for me), don't haggle over price (if it's above what you want to pay move on), be respectful (in terms of boundaries and how you treat the lady) and in last but not least just be Lekker, ie don't be a doos (prick).

On 2025-03-17 15:24:08 jimv said:
Never pay upfront.
If you're visiting a venue, discuss rates and expectations upfront and not 'in the room.'
Don't fall in love despite how many will make you feel- it's a business transaction end of the day.
Be respectful at all times but don't be a doormat.
Always be nice and clean, or shower beforehand.
Repeat - be respectful and don't be a doos. The ladies worth their professional weight in gold will reciprocate in kind.
Oh, and get a punting phone!

What he said!

Repeat....dont be a doos!
Don't lend or prepay cash
Get a punting phone
Never, ever ever agree to 'discuss in the room'. You will never win, rather walk away if you cannot agree before your booking starts.
And
Don't be a doos.

Never book a WG with pics older than 6 months. If she has bad phone manners chances are that you going to get bad service. Never pay a deposit

1.READ THE ESA RULEZ
2.READ THE ESA RULEZ AGAIN

On 2025-03-17 15:41:13 Lowden said:
Communicate effectively (keep information requests to rates, services, availability and location), be punctual (arrive on time and if you are running late or need to postpone or cancel communicate, be clean (always shower at the sp's place even if you showered at your own place before arrival - the lady will feel more comfortable knowing first hand that you are clean), shave down there (this is debatable but works for me), don't haggle over price (if it's above what you want to pay move on), be respectful (in terms of boundaries and how you treat the lady) and in last but not least just be Lekker, ie don't be a doos (prick).

Netso.

Try and use an alternate number for punting, there are wg's out there who give your number to scammers who pretend to be cops.

They will say you've been charged with rape and will try and force money out of you to drop the charges.