Lately I just can't be bothered to book any ladies.
My last two punts, I literally couldn't stay after just one round where with the first punt I even declined going again when she was all revved up, this was after spending the hour chatting and her insisting I can't leave after just a conversation.
There's another lady on here who jokingly inboxed me asking why I haven't seen her yet and I don't know. I'm just anxious that I'll have built up the punt in my head only to not be able to follow through because of this.
It's an interesting one and usually a bit multifaceted.
The first thing is that I find the urge can be seasonal in a sense: perhaps because of general things going on in life, your overall mood, things you're thinking of etc.
Secondly, that spark and connection with the lady is important. Difficult to define but has contributions from both sides but its absence can create these flat experiences.
Thirdly, building up punts can put a strange pressure on it. Over planning and over thinking creates a setting that often leaves you dissatisfied- because you fixate more on what you want and expect rather than enjoy the things that are exciting in the moment.
Overall, I think it's about just giving way to the experience and letting yourself go and have fun a bit.
Not sure if any of this resonates but just my opinion on some of it :)
I guess I have to think about what you're saying. Maybe see if there's a lady with a connection I have that can accommodate me just to see how that goes.
I would love to be the one where all that shall exist will be said in that first look, that first hug and words shall be replaced in a closeness naked and passionate.
The silence comfortable yet, burning with lust and then the slow slow....sloooooowwww welcome into a space of you and I lost in each other.
......
RB.
On 2024-03-30 08:38:24 Russian Bridgitte said:
Dear DickRich2
I would love to be the one where all that shall exist will be said in that first look, that first hug and words shall be replaced in a closeness naked and passionate.
The silence comfortable yet, burning with lust and then the slow slow....sloooooowwww welcome into a space of you and I lost in each other.
......
RB.
Me too RB. I wish the engine still revved like it used to. We would definitely have a run-in.
How long have you been a punter if you don't mind me asking? Also how often do you book?
I think as time goes on these purple streets the novelty of punting wears off. You maybe suffering from "punter fatigue" where punting is no longer as exciting as it used to be. This maybe made worse if youve recently experienced service that is below your expectations. Punting becomes all too boring or you are getting average punts that are nothing to complain about but don't give you that memorable or unicorn experience.
I used to book at least 1 or 2 SP a week in my heyday but now probably 1 booking every few months. The excitement has worn off. Maybe you need to go on a punting break. The bookings I've done every few months have been good so as they say absence makes the heart grow fonder..
On 2024-03-31 09:29:08 POPIACT said:
Hello DickRich
How long have you been a punter if you don't mind me asking? Also how often do you book?
I think as time goes on these purple streets the novelty of punting wears off. You maybe suffering from "punter fatigue" where punting is no longer as exciting as it used to be. This maybe made worse if youve recently experienced service that is below your expectations. Punting becomes all too boring or you are getting average punts that are nothing to complain about but don't give you that memorable or unicorn experience.
I used to book at least 1 or 2 SP a week in my heyday but now probably 1 booking every few months. The excitement has worn off. Maybe you need to go on a punting break. The bookings I've done every few months have been good so as they say absence makes the heart grow fonder..
It's been about a decade now. Maybe I should just take a break. Coming to the site to catch up seems to be the highlight lately.
Being going at it solidly for a while and having the same feeling you describe.
On 2024-03-31 10:48:58 DickRich2 said:
On 2024-03-31 09:29:08 POPIACT said: Hello DickRich
How long have you been a punter if you don't mind me asking? Also how often do you book?
I think as time goes on these purple streets the novelty of punting wears off. You maybe suffering from "punter fatigue" where punting is no longer as exciting as it used to be. This maybe made worse if youve recently experienced service that is below your expectations. Punting becomes all too boring or you are getting average punts that are nothing to complain about but don't give you that memorable or unicorn experience.
I used to book at least 1 or 2 SP a week in my heyday but now probably 1 booking every few months. The excitement has worn off. Maybe you need to go on a punting break. The bookings I've done every few months have been good so as they say absence makes the heart grow fonder..
It's been about a decade now. Maybe I should just take a break. Coming to the site to catch up seems to be the highlight lately.
I'm a decade in as well. Feeling the same way
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